Friday, August 7, 2015

OT 第 283天 - 父母們,起來! 不要溺愛你們的孩子 (請按此處收聼廣東話 )

你可到我新的"破. 立 40 日靈修"Blog/Podcast 去做一個栽培師, 幫助一至二位的親友作四十天的"破. 立"靈修, 這正是主耶穌吩咐我有"破。立"的真正原因。你願意嗎?
http://www.breakbuild.blogspot.ca/

如果你有 Android cel. 請按此處上載程式,可直接一按收聽最近之十次廣播:
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破.立 Break.Build: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.ideal.bb.app

安靜
1.  停下來. 靜一靜
2.  等候主. 深呼吸經歷主之平安,感受他的臨在, 呼出你的憂慮

讚美及感恩
1.  思想最近使你開心歡笑的時刻
2.  為那些時刻及有關的人感恩
3.  敞開心懷讚美主

我 的 心 哪 , 你 要 稱 頌 耶 和 華 ! 不 可 忘 記 他 的 一 切 恩 惠 !
他 赦 免 你 的 一 切 罪 孽 , 醫 治 你 的 一 切 疾 病 。
他 救 贖 你 的 命 脫 離 死 亡 , 以 仁 愛 和 慈 悲 為 你 的 冠 冕 。
他 用 美 物 使 你 所 願 的 得 以 知 足 , 以 致 你 如 鷹 返 老 還 童 。
                  詩篇 103:2-5  

認罪悔改  
1.  求聖靈在你生命中工作
      "親愛的聖靈, 求你光照我心靈的深處, 使我看見我的罪, 我和主耶穌的阻隔,
        求主幫助, 奉主耶穌基督名求。阿們。"

2. 透過聖靈的工作, 安靜一刻, 省察自己, 之後祈禱:
     「親愛的主耶穌,感謝你為我的罪釘死在十字架上,我願意在你面前承認我的罪(凡聖靈光照到的,請逐一說出),求你用你的寶血赦免我的罪,我願意打開心門讓你作我的救主,求你救贖我,我願意一生跟隨你讓你作我生命的主,求你帶領我。聖靈,求你充滿我,使我得著恩賜及力量去事奉主、見證主。奉主耶穌基督名求,阿們。」


聆聽主話 (申命記 21:18-23)


18 人 若 有 頑 梗 悖 逆 的 兒 子 , 不 聽 從 父 母 的 話 , 他 們 雖 懲 治 他 , 他 仍 不 聽 從 ,
19 父 母 就 要 抓 住 他 , 將 他 帶 到 本 地 的 城 門 、 本 城 的 長 老 那 裡 ,
20 對 長 老 說 : 我 們 這 兒 子 頑 梗 悖 逆 , 不 聽 從 我 們 的 話 , 是 貪 食 好 酒 的 人 。
21 本 城 的 眾 人 就 要 用 石 頭 將 他 打 死 。 這 樣 , 就 把 那 惡 從 你 們 中 間 除 掉 , 以 色 列 眾 人 都 要 聽 見 害 怕 。
                                      申命記 21:18-21

現在讓你有一段安靜的時間, 給聖靈一個空間, 讓主耶穌可能以藉着你剛才讀過的經文, 對你說話:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmax47l2hLU

我的聆聽
      Yesterday's passage calls fathers to rise up to take their responsibility to be good fathers. Today's passage calls parents to rise up to take their responsibility not to spoil their children. More than that, if a son is stubborn and rebellious, then all the men of the city shall stone him to death with stones. Wow! What does that mean? Did this stoning really happen?  

讓我們聽聽 John Goldingay 教授的教導: 
     The rule about the rebellious son is also in part concerned with order in the community. It concerns an adult son, not a child. An adult is capable of profligacy and drunkenness, which are likely to involve other people.  They affect the community and are thus the entire community's business. It is therefore his parents' responsibility to bring him before the community court. Their concern will also be that his action will imperil the entire family. The parents cannot let him simply use up its resources. He is himself protected by their not being able to take action against him on their own, maybe because of a grudge against him. The sanction of stoning shows how important the matter is.  

John Goldingay. Numbers & Deuteronomy for Everyone. Louisville,KY: Westminster John Knox Press, 2010, p.165.



      So, the question we need to ask today is not how God could be so cruel and inhuman to stone a stubborn and rebellious son? Or, did this kind of stoning really happen? If it did happen, then God is unjust and we should not believe in Him.

      The question we should ask is why parents do not take their responsibility to teach their children well that they become stubborn and rebellious affecting the whole community. The question is how we as members of a community have the responsibility to avoid this kind of stubborn and rebellious people to surface. Is it possible to stop that? NO! There is no way for us to stop people turning to the wicked and evil side to become stubborn and rebellious. But, we have the responsibility as parents to rise up to be better parents so that we can do our best to avoid spoiling our children.  

親愛的主耶穌,
Lead more parents to become good parents loving their children so that they won't become stubborn and rebellious.  奉主耶穌基督名求, 阿們。

省察問題
1. Do you think we need more good parents? How can you help in this situation? 

2. If you are a parent, can you pray more with your spouse for your children? 

感恩讚美
讓我們為神同在感恩讚美主:
10,000 Reasons


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